Fucking RIGHT! This is the kinda shit I live for. I read on Dangerous Lilly’s blog about the Hot Fat Girl Revolution and am so fucking ready to participate! I’ve talked a lot in this blog about fat hatred, my own fat, my own sense of self-worth, etc. so something like this excites me. I’ve never really talked much about this on the blog before but sometimes within the fat acceptance community I feel a bit out of place; not ostracized or anything like that just a bit off because I’ve always had confidence. I don’t really have a story about overcoming my own insecurities and learning to love myself and my body: I always have. The closest I’ve ever come to something like that is coming to terms with the fact that I’ll never be more than a B-cup and that didn’t take long at all and I fucking love my tits. So when I hear all these amazing stories about these beautiful women who have overcome all their demons and come out happier and more aware of their own beauty, I feel just a bit out of place. Yes, I have some off days where I feel kind of blah, and yes, I have experienced the fat hatred that is thrown at us every day from so many directions but for some very happy reason I’ve never been affected by it. I have always been blessed with the ability to not give a shit about what anyone thinks, fat haters, the media, anyone; since I was ten years old I’ve been defiant and uncaring about what others think of me and I’m pretty sure it’s the only thing I can thank my dad for, this disposition of mine. It’s given me a happy life, a life where I feel beautiful every fucking goddamn day I live in this fat beautiful body, a life where I don’t have to be horrified of mirrors or be upset by some hateful stranger’s comment. I know I’m not the only woman like this and I want to hear all their voices. And I want to hear the voice of every beautiful, amazing fat woman (or man, whoever you are!) who is unaware of their beauty or afraid or angry or hurt, I want to hear it! And I wanna show my love and support and share my confidence with everyone!
So I now contribute my hot fat girl pictures, of which I have a fair amount:
I could probably post more but I think three is enough. And listen people: I don’t fucking expect or want the whole goddamn world to think that I am the hottest thing to walk the earth. Beauty is a wholly subjective thing. So don’t treat me like I’m some piece of ugly trash that you can step all over and dehumanize.
Ashley
Andreas
RF
Jacob Canfield
Absolutely stunning pics!! I’m totally gonna recruit you for wardrobe help, lol. Especially if the first round of clothes for my NYC party outfit don’t work.
Haha, thanks so much! It makes me really happy to see your feeling and being the sexy, beautiful girl that you are. I hope you manage to find the clothes you want; for me, it’s a little difficult because I don’t shop very often or care much about clothes. The things in those pictures are just things I have lying around, random skirts, a satin scarf, etc. One thing I do though when shopping that I have no shame in doing is going to the maternity section; those clothes are comfy AND often very pretty. But it’s still bullshit that they don’t make clothes that fit my body shape; hopefully someday all that bullshit will change. But for now, we make due with what we can. Good luck with everything!
I love the last pic especially – sultry – it’s like you’re a present to be unwrapped ;)
Thanks so much! That one’s one of my favorites too.
Holy shit, woman. You are smoking hot. Seriously, I envy the body you’ve got.
Aw, thank you so much, that’s a lovely compliment! Your body is beautiful as well and quite envy-able. Thanks!
You go girl.
You’re so gorgeous and elegant!
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Hey there, I updated my post and sidebar with a little sidebar-banner I made, if you wanna use it on your blog. Go check it out :)
Yeah, I saw! I’m not really entirely sure how to use it though; if you could tell me I would love to put it somewhere on the blog.
Ok first you go to my blog, right click and save the banner thats in my post to your hard drive. Now you go over to “media” in your dashboard and upload that banner. You’ll want to copy the direct link for the location of the banner. Now go to Widgets, ad drag over a Text widget wherever you want it to go in your sidebar. Then enter in this code:
Now the default size of the banner is 150×150 – I changed it to 125×125 for my own sidebar, you can make yours whatever size from 150 and under. just change the numbers up there for width and height.
Ok first you go to my blog, right click and save the banner thats in my post to your hard drive. Now you go over to “media” in your dashboard and upload that banner. You’ll want to copy the direct link for the location of the banner. Now go to Widgets, ad drag over a Text widget wherever you want it to go in your sidebar. Then enter in this code:
Now the default size of the banner is 150×150 – I changed it to 125×125 for my own sidebar, you can make yours whatever size from 150 and under. just change the numbers up there for width and height.
*edit- I had to add in spaces so that you could see the code, lol. between the first “” and then before the last “>”
oh FFS. it still won’t show. lol. you can delete these comments and just email me.
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you are beautiful!
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You are beautiful!